By Stephanie Goedl
November 21, 2024
The holidays are a perfect time for real estate agents to nurture relationships meaningfully and authentically. By connecting with your sphere of influence during this season, you’re not just spreading holiday cheer but also laying the foundation for a successful year ahead. Here are 5 ways to connect with your clients and friends.
Send a Personalized Holiday Card
Nothing beats a handwritten note in today’s digital age. A warm, personalized holiday card can show your sphere of influence that you value them beyond transactions. Include:
- A heartfelt message expressing gratitude for their support.
- A quick update on the local market or your business.
- A subtle call-to-action, like inviting them to reach out for any real estate needs in the new year.
Pro Tip: For past clients, reference a memorable moment from their home purchase or sale to make the card extra special.
Host a Holiday Client Appreciation Event
Organize a festive gathering to show appreciation to your clients and community. Ideas include:
- A hot cocoa and cookie decorating party for families.
- A wine and cheese evening for adults.
- A “Photos with Santa” event where families can drop by for free professional photos.
This type of event creates goodwill and keeps your name top of mind in a festive, low-pressure way.
Share a Thoughtful Gift or Pop-By
Delivering small, thoughtful gifts can make a big impact. Consider:
- Holiday-themed candles, ornaments, or baked goods.
- A small branded calendar or magnet with market tips for the coming year.
- Attach a tag with a simple message like, “Thinking of you this holiday season. Let me know how I can help in the new year!”
Use Social Media to Spread Cheer
Post engaging, festive content that adds value and connects personally. For example:
- Host a giveaway for a local business gift card.
- Share local holiday events or real estate tips for winterizing homes.
- Post a heartfelt video thanking your followers and clients for their trust and support.
Encourage interactions by asking fun holiday questions like, “What’s your favorite holiday tradition?”
Call or Text to Check In
Take a moment to personally reach out to key contacts in your sphere. A short phone call or friendly text wishing them a happy holiday season can go a long way. For clients, it’s an opportunity to ask how their home is working for them and subtly remind them of your services without being salesy.
Pro Tip: Use these conversations to update your contact database with new addresses or life updates, like a new baby or job.
Conclusion
The holiday season is more than a time for celebration—it’s a golden opportunity to strengthen the relationships that fuel your real estate business. By reaching out with thoughtful gestures and authentic connections, you remind your sphere of influence that you’re more than just an agent—you’re a trusted resource and a friendly face they can count on.

About the author: Stephanie Goedl is Chief Operating Officer and Broker/Owner of CENTURY 21 Discovery. If you are interested in becoming part of the CENTURY 21 Discovery team or would like more information about our services we provide contact us at 714.626.2069 or Careers@C21Discovery.com.














